When you decide to break up with someone it is usually a painful thing. May be you really want to end the relationship but still when it comes to an end you are sure to feel the pain. When it comes to breaking up you may not want to hurt, the simple reason being once he/she meant everything to you. So you are wondering how to break up without hurting? Think! Think whether you are serious about what you are doing. Every relationship will see a down fall so make sure it is not a temporary decision. Once you have given it a proper thought and taken a final decision plan what you are going to talk and when you are going to talk. Do not simply dump him/ her.
The essential factor is not to feel guilty. If you feel guilty this is not going to work. Also when you plan to break up do not use a phone or an email to inform. Talk face to face and explain in a polite way what your plan is. When you talk do not use words which will encourage them. Do not ignore thinking that they will realize and keep going. That is not the right method. Make them understand that you are the not the right choice for them and they deserve something more. Breaking up with somebody is never easy. But that can’t stop you from disclosing the truth. Do not ignore the opposite person’s reaction at the same time do not get over emotional. Both will lead you in trouble. Maintain a balance and give some time so that whatever you said will sink in them. After the breakup do not isolate yourself. Also though the relationship ended try not to think about it and keep going.
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